The sound of the word home often inspires a feeling of reassurance and relaxation. This feeling is referenced in the many sayings we use, including "A man's home is his castle," "Home is where the heart is," and "There's no place like home." Home is our first community, where we live with and learn from "our folks." Our elders help us develop a sense of identity and heritage through the languages we speak, the stories we tell and the lessons we learn, the food we eat and the music we play, the holidays and holy days we observe, and the customs we keep in daily life and for special occasions.
At family reunions, we revisit family history, greet new members and recall those who have passed away. Our concept of "family" may focus on parents and children, or may extend to the broader network of cousins, second cousins and third cousins. It may include old and valued friends who have similar cultural experiences and shared values and become aunts and uncles. As we branch off into new families, we draw upon the past to recreate home and family life. Home-based traditions help us create our sense of identity.
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